Last week, I had the pleasure of hosting Jordana Abraham, co-founder of Betches, on the Ask a Matchmaker podcast! If you’re familiar with Betches, you know it’s one of the earliest and most influential female-focused media brands, bringing a fresh dose of humor to important topics—whether it’s news, dating, or even infertility.

As Jordana aptly put it, “We try to take these topics that can feel very heavy and laugh at them a little bit. Humor is the only way to get through things.”

The Power of Humor in Heavy Conversations

Humor can be a powerful tool in navigating difficult subjects. By lightening the mood around serious issues, we can foster more open discussions and create a sense of community. In our conversation, Jordana emphasized the importance of addressing heavy topics with a sense of levity, making them more approachable and less daunting.

Understanding Fertility Struggles

During the episode, Jordana opened up about her personal journey, particularly her fertility struggles. This topic often comes with a heavy emotional weight, but by sharing her story through a humorous lens, she not only creates space for herself to process her feelings but also for others to feel less alone in their experiences.

Fertility challenges can be isolating, but recognizing that many people share similar struggles helps to normalize the conversation. Jordana’s openness serves as a reminder that vulnerability can lead to deeper connections and understanding.

Learning from Relationships

Jordana also shared valuable insights from her marriage, particularly regarding the importance of “fighting fair.” Here are some standout takeaways from our discussion:

1. Communicate Your Support Needs

  • Learn how you want to be supported—and communicate it: Each individual has different needs when it comes to support, depending on the situation. It’s crucial to communicate these needs to your partner openly. By doing so, you can foster a more understanding and responsive relationship.

2. The Art of Fighting Fair

  • Fighting fair is key: Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but how we handle it makes all the difference. Jordana suggested that sometimes it’s best to take a step back when things get heated. A quick 15-minute walk can provide the space needed to cool down and regroup. This approach allows both partners to return to the conversation as their best selves.

3. Timing Your Thoughts

  • You don’t need to say everything immediately: In relationships, not every thought needs to be shared the moment it appears. Taking a moment to think through your feelings can lead to more effective communication and reduce misunderstandings.

These takeaways emphasize the importance of healthy communication in relationships, enabling partners to navigate conflicts with grace and understanding.

Tune In to the Full Episode

I think you’re going to love this episode! To hear more about Jordana’s journey and insights on relationships, watch the full conversation on YouTube. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! You can also tune in on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

More from Jordana Abraham

If you want more of Jordana’s wit and insight, follow Betches on social media and connect with Jordana on Instagram for the latest updates and engaging content!

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Conclusion

Conversations like the one I had with Jordana Abraham highlight the importance of humor and open communication in navigating relationships. By addressing heavy topics with levity and practicing healthy conflict resolution, we can foster deeper connections and understanding with our partners.

That’s it for this week! I hope you found these insights helpful and inspiring.

See you soon!
Maria Avgitidis