Last night, I had the incredible honor of being featured on ABC News to discuss dating trends for the new year—and it marked a special milestone: the very first mention of my upcoming book, Ask a Matchmaker! 🎉
Watch the ABC News clip here: https://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/matchmaker-dating-advice-people-seeking-romance-2025/story?id=117381757
This book has been a labor of love, blending my professional expertise and personal experiences to help people transform their love lives. Seeing it mentioned in my first press feature is truly surreal and rewarding. If you missed it, you can watch the segment here: ABC News Video. And if you’re ready to take your dating life to the next level, you can preorder Ask a Matchmaker now. Your support means the world to me as I take this next big step. Here’s to a year of love, growth, and connection! 💕
Now, let’s dive into the Top Dating Trends for 2025 and how they can help you date more intentionally and effectively this year.
1. Value-Driven Dating
In 2025, people are dating with purpose. Singles are prioritizing compatibility in areas that truly matter: core values, political beliefs, and ethical priorities. With the rise of “Values Filters” on dating apps and more meaningful conversations happening earlier in relationships, this trend is reshaping modern dating.
If you’re looking for advice on how to embrace this trend, start by reflecting on your non-negotiables. What values are essential in a partner? Maybe it’s their stance on sustainability, how they treat others, or their long-term goals. Write them down. This clarity will help you identify connections that align with your vision for a future together.
2. Class-Conscious Compatibility
Let’s talk about the growing awareness around class and socioeconomic compatibility. In 2025, singles are getting real about how financial habits and goals impact relationships. This isn’t just about income levels—it’s about shared financial values, such as how you approach saving, spending, or planning for the future.
Pro tip: Don’t shy away from these conversations. While money can feel like a touchy subject, discussing financial expectations and goals early on can prevent bigger conflicts later. Honesty and transparency build trust and set the foundation for a stronger partnership.
3. The Offline Dating Comeback
Swiping fatigue is real, and singles are over it. This year, we’re seeing a major resurgence in offline dating, with curated events, retreats, and meet-ups designed to foster meaningful connections. These in-person experiences allow singles to connect without the pressure of algorithms or perfectly curated profiles.
If you’re tired of apps, consider attending a singles’ retreat, a speed-dating event, or a community activity where you’re likely to meet like-minded people. Not only are these spaces designed for connection, but they also remove the distractions of digital dating and encourage genuine interaction.
How to Date Intentionally and Effectively in 2025
Navigating this year’s dating landscape doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. Here are some tips to help you align your dating life with these trends:
- Reflect on Your Intentions: What are you looking for in a relationship? Be honest with yourself about your goals and dealbreakers.
- Communicate Clearly: Whether it’s discussing values or financial goals, don’t be afraid to bring up meaningful topics early on. It’s better to know sooner rather than later if you’re aligned.
- Take Advantage of Resources: Books like Ask a Matchmaker (shameless plug!) are designed to guide you through dating with intention. Pair that with expert advice or even a matchmaking service to ensure you’re putting your best foot forward.
- Prioritize Offline Connections: Sign up for events, try new hobbies, or volunteer in your community. Meeting people organically can feel refreshing and authentic.
Dating in 2025 is all about alignment, intention, and authenticity. By leaning into these trends, you can create meaningful connections and move closer to finding your person.
If you’re ready to transform your love life, I invite you to preorder Ask a Matchmaker and join me on this journey of love and growth. This is your year to make dating smarter, not harder!
Let’s make 2025 the year of intentional love. 💕