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The Agape Edit

Modern dating advice for intentional relationships

Why Agape Match Is Built for Long-Term Compatibility, Not Swipe Culture

In a dating culture driven by dopamine hits, algorithms, and infinite scroll, it’s easy to mistake activity for progress. Swiping feels productive. Matching feels validating. Messaging feels like mome...

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Stop Dating Your Resume - Start Dating Your Nervous System

One of the most common things I hear from ambitious, capable people, especially women - is this:

"I just need someone who's as ambitious as I am."

I understand why that feels true. If you're a build...

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Dating After Divorce for Women: How to Heal, Find Love, and Start Again

You think divorce is the end. It's not. It's the part where you finally start living.

The Moment Everything Changes After Divorce

Nobody walks down the aisle thinking, "Someday, I'll be divorced." Not...

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Why Gen Z Is Ditching Dating Apps - and the Dating Strategies They’re Using Instead

Everything old is new again - and when it comes to dating in 2026, that statement has never been more true.

Nearly half of Gen Z are currently single, and they are turning away from the phone and tur...

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Why Valentine's Day and Dating Apps May Be Harming Your Mental Health

Valentine's Day is approaching, and while retailers stock up on roses and chocolates, many singles are battling something far darker: isolation, dread, and complete burnout. Science suggests the digit...

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Dating Strategies That Actually Work in 2026: A Matchmaker’s Guide to Finding Love

If you’re searching for dating strategies that actually work in 2026 - strategies grounded in real human connection, not algorithms - you’re in the right place.

Dating today is a paradox. We have mor...

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How to Find the Right Matchmaker for You: 5 Smart Tips

Hiring a matchmaker is a deeply personal decision and one that deserves thoughtful consideration. Whether you’re newly single, burned out on dating apps, or simply ready for a more intentional approac...

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Healing After Heartbreak: How to Rebuild Self-Love and Emotional Strength After a Breakup

Breaking up is never easy. The end of a relationship can leave you feeling disoriented, emotionally raw, and questioning your worth. Heartbreak doesn’t just end a partnership, it can disrupt your iden...

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NYC Date Night Guide: Cozy, Romantic Spots We Actually Recommend

As professional matchmakers, we don’t just talk about first dates—we plan hundreds of them every year. That means we’re constantly scouting New York City for spots that strike the right balance: intim...

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Dating FOMO and Dating Through Grief: How to Move Forward Without Rushing Yourself

Dating can stir up a lot of emotions, especially during seasons of uncertainty or loss. Two of the most common experiences singles face are dating FOMO (the fear of missing out on love) and dating whi...

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23 Relationship Strategies for Men to Improve Communication And Trust

Strong relationships don’t just happen – they’re built step-by-step on trust. Trust is nothing more than the complete absence of any doubts, confidence in your loved one, and peace of mind felt regard...

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Is Hiring a Matchmaker Worth It? 4 Signs Professional Matchmaking Is Right for You

Hiring a matchmaker is not for everyone and that’s intentional. Professional matchmaking is designed for people who are clear about what they want, value their time, and are ready to approach dating w...

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Date Ideas in New Jersey

If you live in New York City, New Jersey might not be the first place you think of for date night - but that’s exactly why it works. Just across the river (or a short drive away), the Garden State del...

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Understanding Core Desires: The Key to Deeper Intimacy

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what actually creates intimacy—and why so many people feel disconnected even when they’re “doing everything right.” We talk endlessly about attraction, chemistry...

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Four First-Date Essentials That Never Go Out of Style

First dates can feel like a high-stakes audition—but they don’t have to. At their best, first dates are simply a chance to see if there’s ease, curiosity, and potential. Whether you’re meeting through...

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24 Best Date Ideas NYC: From Rooftop Views to Hidden Gems

Looking for unforgettable date ideas in NYC that are stylish, memorable, and far from ordinary? Whether you’re planning a first date, deepening a connection, or surprising your partner with something ...

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Dating Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore (Even If You Really Like Him)

We’ve all been there.

A friend who has dated endlessly, been disappointed repeatedly, and struggled to find a meaningful relationship finally announces, “I met the perfect guy.” She lists his great q...

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Date Ideas in Brooklyn – 44 Best Romantic Activities

When may you need a list of some cool date ideas in Brooklyn? In New York City, couples can celebrate their love amid the city’s iconic landmarks and lively atmosphere. In fact, it should not ne...

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Crafting an Irresistible Online Dating Profile

If online dating feels like endless swiping with little payoff, your profile may be doing more harm than good. Your online dating profile is your first impression, your conversation starter, and your ...

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Communication Styles in Relationships: A Guide to Better Connection

Imagine your relationship as a dance: each partner brings a unique rhythm, pace, and style. When both dancers sync, the result is effortless harmony. But if one leads too strongly or the other hesitat...

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