As we step into 2024, I’m ready to shake things up in my dating life. New year, new approach! And if you’re anything like me, you might be thinking it’s time for a fresh start, too. That’s why I’ve decided to lean on the wisdom of some dating pros to revamp my entire dating strategy. Let me tell you how I’m going about it, and maybe this might just be what you need to turn your own dating life around!

Why I’m Trying a New Dating Strategy

Last year was a whirlwind—I’ve tried all the dating apps, gone on more dates than I can count, and while I met some great people, it was time for a change. So, this year, I’m setting myself up for success by seeking expert advice from two of the best in the dating game: Erika Ettin, a highly experienced dating coach, and Maria Avgitidis, a fourth-generation matchmaker. Their goal? To help people like you and me find authentic connections, whether it’s online or through traditional matchmaking.

Step 1: Getting a Professional Dating Strategy Call with Erika Ettin

Erika Ettin isn’t just any dating coach. With a background in economics from Cornell and an MBA from Georgetown, she takes a unique, analytical approach to dating. She started her coaching journey in 2011, after years working as an economist, and she’s since helped countless singles (myself included) boost their confidence and refine their approach to dating.

During my strategy call with Erika, I got a clear roadmap for navigating the world of online dating—from that crucial first message to sealing the deal on a first date. One of Erika’s key insights was the importance of authenticity. In her view, dating apps should be a tool to meet people in a real, meaningful way—not just swipe endlessly. If you’re ready to jumpstart your dating life, you can schedule a strategy call with Erika, too.

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Step 2: Considering Matchmaking with Maria Avgitidis

For those ready to go a step further, Maria Avgitidis offers a unique option. As a fourth-generation matchmaker and the founder of Agape Match, Maria knows a thing or two about connecting people in meaningful relationships. Matchmaking is a bit different than online dating because it’s hands-on. Maria and her team work tirelessly to understand your preferences, values, and quirks, then find someone who’s actually aligned with what you’re looking for.

If you’re serious about meeting someone special, you might want to consider working with Maria and her team. You can visit AgapeMatch.com to get started with her bespoke matchmaking services.

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How “Ask a Matchmaker” Podcast Keeps Me Inspired Every Week

One of my favorite things about teaming up with Maria is that she’s also the host of the Ask a Matchmaker podcast. It’s a goldmine of dating wisdom! Every week, Maria tackles a different relationship topic with special guests, providing no-nonsense insight into compatibility, communication, and the complexities of modern love. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, Maria’s podcast has something for everyone.

You can catch Ask a Matchmaker on:

  • Apple Podcasts
  • Spotify
  • YouTube

Listening to Maria’s advice on the podcast has made me feel more equipped to handle the ups and downs of dating. Plus, she covers practical topics like how to build a great dating profile, understanding red and green flags, and even how to navigate those awkward “define the relationship” talks. Each episode is packed with helpful tips that I can apply immediately.

What I’ve Learned So Far

Through my journey with Erika and Maria, here are some game-changing insights I’ve picked up so far:

  1. Honesty is Your Best Asset: Erika encourages her clients to be real and open about what they want. Instead of crafting an idealized version of yourself online, she suggests showing the real, slightly imperfect version of you—quirks and all.
  2. Matchmaking Is a Viable (and Exciting) Option: I used to think matchmaking was something only found in romantic comedies or for older generations. But Maria’s modern take on it has shown me that matchmaking can be a powerful tool for meeting compatible people without the hassle of swiping endlessly.
  3. Confidence is Key: As Erika often points out, confidence is attractive! Working with her has made me realize that approaching dating with confidence, and self-assurance can change everything. After all, feeling good about yourself is the first step toward attracting someone who appreciates you.
  4. Stay Consistent but Don’t Rush: Dating doesn’t have to be a race. Both Erika and Maria emphasize the importance of pacing. There’s no need to go on three dates a week if it doesn’t feel right—sometimes, quality matters more than quantity.

My Goals for 2024

With Erika and Maria in my corner, I’m feeling excited and ready to embrace 2024 with a renewed mindset! My top dating goals this year include:

  • Being More Selective: I want to focus on genuine connections instead of saying yes to every opportunity. That means being intentional about who I swipe right on or agree to meet in person.
  • Staying True to My Values: It’s easy to get swayed by trends or societal pressure, but I want to stay true to what matters most to me.
  • Taking Small Risks: Dating can be nerve-wracking, but I’m challenging myself to take small risks—whether it’s reaching out first or going on a date with someone a little different from my “type.”

Ready to Try Something New? Here’s How You Can Join Me

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Before I wrap up, if you’re curious about how we can work together to elevate your dating journey, click here to learn more about our services. We’re here to help you find clarity, confidence, and connection.

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