Hi reader,

The holidays are right around the corner, which means the pressure is on for those of us who still need to finish our Christmas shopping.

Depending on the status of your relationship, finding the perfect present can be tricky. Should you get your partner something useful? Fun? Romantic?

And what if you’re in a situationship? Should you get them anything at all?

My Ask a Matchmaker podcast guest, Jordyn Woodruff, and I answer this exact question in this week’s episode. Jordyn is the co-host of Mean Girls Podcast (formerly owned by Barstool Sports).

We collectively agreed that no, you should not buy your situationship a gift. If you really want to get them something you can buy them one of these from Walgreens. That’s it. 👇🏻

But if you’re actively in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and you’ve been dating for more than a year, you can follow this gift-giving formula I created:

👕Buy them an outfit. This includes pants, a nice shirt, and a belt

📚Get them a really, really nice coffee table book that has to do with something they really love or someone they really admire. This is what I got my husband George one year.

🌸Buy them skincare and/or cologne.

🤡And finally, a joke gift. Get them something that will make them laugh or represents an inside joke the two of you have

We also offer gift-giving advice for the people who are trickier to shop for (like your in-laws), but you’ll have to tune into the episode to hear those examples. 😉

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The ✨Everything Shower Theory ✨challenge is a game changer and the perfect way to give yourself a mid-December glow-up!

While everyone is getting cozy, you’ll be radiating confidence. Try this and let me know how it goes by tagging me on Instagram and using the hashtag #everythingshowertheory. (If I don’t respond it’s because I’m busy taking over Paris.)

🎯Let’s work together! 

Want to come to Greece with me in 2024? I’m hosting the next Escape 2 Paros. If you have any questions regarding this trip, email me directly. I would love for you to come! (I know it says you have to be a graduate of Agape Intensive to attend. Don’t worry if you’re not enrolled yet. I got you!)

In Person Intensive happening in NYC?Maybe! Let’s take a head count! We were thinking March 2024! Click here and let us know if you’re interested!

Dates for (virtual) Agape Intensive for February and April 2024 have been posted.  Grab your seat! 

 

If you want to work with us but aren’t sure where to start, be sure to book a 30-minute Dating Strategy Call. We will walk through your dating history to help you understand your current dating experience. We’ll also help connect you with an Agape matchmaking program that’s the best fit for you and your goals.

To learn more about our services, click here

That’s all for now. See you next week!

Sincerely,

Matchmaker Maria