I wrangled comedian Joyelle Nicole Johnson for an EMERGENCY episode of Ask a Matchmaker! We came together to unpack the wild story of Reesa Teesa, a woman from Jersey now living in Atlanta who went viral with her incredible tale about how she met, dated, married, and ultimately divorced a pathological liar.
Her narrative is not only captivating because of its content, but also because she has managed to engage millions with her impressive 53-part video series, where each video is about ten minutes long. For those who’ve been living under a TikTok rock, Reesa Teesa’s saga is both shocking and relatable, raising questions about trust, honesty, and the complexities of modern dating.
The Wild Lies We Encounter in Dating
In honor of Reesa Teesa, I asked our listeners to share the wildest lies they’ve been told by their dating partners. I won’t spoil the stories for you, but expect to hear about faked terminal illnesses, baffling clues that don’t add up, and a plethora of other red flags. These stories are not just entertaining; they serve as cautionary tales for anyone navigating the often murky waters of dating.
Key Takeaways from the Episode
Joyelle and I shared our biggest takeaways from these cautionary tales:
- Meet Your Significant Other’s Friends ASAP
There’s no excuse for not meeting them within the first month of dating. Schedule a Zoom call if needed, or invite them to meet your friends first—this should be a priority! Meeting friends provides insight into your partner’s life and character, serving as a crucial red flag detector. - Trust Your Gut and Stay Strong
It’s often not that we don’t see the lies; it’s that we see them and choose to ignore them. Trusting your instincts can save you from unnecessary heartache. - Avoid Men Who Are 6’4” (Just Kidding, But Not Really)
While height isn’t everything, we joked about the tall guys who often seem to attract trouble. It’s a light-hearted reminder that we all have our quirks when it comes to attraction!
The Casting Call: Who Would Play Reesa Teesa?
And lastly, we discussed who Joyelle and I would cast in the “Who TF Did I Marry” movie. Personally, I’m thinking Shonda Rhimes, the creator of Scandal and Grey’s Anatomy. In Shondaland, I believe there’s a place for Reesa Teesa where she is treated with care and understanding.
What do you think? I’d love to hear your casting choices! Reply to this email or tag me on Instagram with your thoughts!
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Post of the Week: Red Flags in Relationships
Reesa Teesa calls her experience the “United Nation of red flags.” What red flags have you ignored in a previous relationship? Comment on this post and let me know! (No judgment—we’ve all been there.) Join the conversation here and share your stories!
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That’s all for now! I look forward to seeing you next week and hope you enjoy the wild stories Joyelle and I share!
Sincerely,
Maria Avgitidis
